What Will it Take?

My somewhat daily ode to Oh, Woe is ME!

What will it take to motivate my family, especially my husband, to get with the program?

Get your mind out of the gutter for a second as far as M is concerned and help me come up with another way..... I would need a shot of something to give him what would really get him motivated--for all of second. So far crying, nagging, and angry temper tantrums haven't worked. Should I just give in?

The kids, too. Nothing works. I've tried the Carrot and the Stick--shiny new toys and mommy strikes where I don't do laundry or cook dinner.

I guess I'm on my own.